Nuestro Regreso a España (Our Return to Spain)
We’re back in Spain after a three-month trip to the US for our son’s wedding. He married this wonderful young lady, Lauren Fuentes, yes she’s Spanish and a bit Irish too, and they are perfect, as you would expect me to say. And no, this wasn’t an arranged marriage. Just by coincidence her father, Rafael, was born in Málaga, 75 km to our southeast on the Mediterranean.
The Wedding
If you’ve been to your child’s wedding you know how we felt. Especially when the two young people seem to fit perfectly. They decided to have the wedding in Vermont in late September which usually is a nice time for some foliage, but this year it was warmer than normal so the leaves were not their fall colors, just a little late. However, the sun was shining and the temperature 70, and in Vermont when you can get good weather for an outdoor event, You Win!
The setting was the Lilac Inn in Brandon, a beautiful 19th century inn with beautiful grounds, a great staff, and as a bonus; we had the entire facility to ourselves which made it even better since we didn’t impose on others. The wedding was very intimate with 85 or so guests and Andrew Gardner, a cycling friend of Landen and Lauren performing the ceremony, and I was the best man, quite an honor. Our daughter Baleigh was in the wedding party and read a selected poem and also created all the wedding jewelry for the bride, groom, and wedding party. In Vermont you can become a temporary officiant for a period of time and marry people, great idea. Andrew knew them and his presentation was wonderful, just that added personal touch with lots of humor.
The food was excellent and we danced into the wee hours of Sunday. Now I do have to admit that Cindy and I went to bed before Rafael and Kathy. Understand that I’ve only lived in Spain for a year and am only 50% Spanish while Rafael was born here, so his motor was idling hours into Sunday..
It was also a time to see family, my mom whose 92 and my dad whose 91. We bothered my mother-in-law Thelma for three-months and she’s a very young 85. It was nice seeing our friends and family, to drink Heady Topper, Long Trail, Otter Creek, and Switchback and drive a car. And if you’re an informed drinker of fine microbrews, Vermont wins the beer battle hands down. So yes it was nice to be back, however, there was a Spanish tug on us to return to Ronda. We left the US October 5th and later in this post I’ll get to our flights.
When we returned to the US it was a bit of culture shock. Prices! Especially food, and with apologies to the local supermarkets, the quality isn’t as good. There are exceptions like; the Farmer’s Market in Montpelier, Pearson’s, Paquet’s, Thygesen’s, and Cindy’s favorite, Four Corners in Newbury. Of course Vermont is located far from the fresh stuff, except in summer, so by the time it reaches the supermarket shelves its had a journey. Our community of 40,000 here in Spain has supermarkets but we just don’t have the choices of many different cereals, potato chips, or soda or whatever you may be looking for, but we do have fresh fruits and vegetables the entire year, the Mediterranean diet. Arguments can be made both ways, yes it’s nice to have a selection but maybe I don’t need 13 varieties of Cheerios. We also realized that the US is designed for the CAR, not a new revelation, but with no car in Spain and able to survive without one, it became very obvious. To do most anything in Barre and especially Vermont, you must have a car. (We are looking for a car now in Spain)
The flight back was on Irish carrier, Aer Lingus. Boston to Dublin was a joy, it seemed faster, and was, we arrived 15 minutes early. I picked this flight in February because of the price and short layover in Dublin. We should have arrived in Málaga at 11:00 a.m.; then it’s a quick bus or taxi ride to the central bus station and hop on one of the many buses that travel to Ronda daily. Not to be!
We boarded the flight to Málaga on time and then sat on the tarmac for 4 hours without A/C due to mechanical problems. After numerous indications that the situation was being resolved, they finally decided that this plane wasn’t going to carry us to Spain. I’m happy they were vigilant about safety, however, they should have made this decision earlier.
We deplaned and sat in the terminal until the airline was able to bring in another plane for our flight. The airline gave us vouchers for lunch and dinner and after 12 more hours in the terminal we boarded our flight to Málaga and eventually landed at 22:00 in Málaga, remember Spain is 1 hour later than Ireland. The last bus for Ronda had left at 20:00 so we could go into Málaga spend the night in a hotel or stay in the airport. So to conserve 120 € we elected to stay in the airport, not fun, but cheaper.
Upstairs in the departure area I found a Starbucks for a coffee at 6:00. We then got a cab to the bus terminal, because we had so much luggage without wheels, and ate our breakfast (desayuno) there. The first bus to Ronda was at 8:00 and we had front row seats.
The bus trip back was uneventful and I still marvel at the scenery as folks traveling through Vermont do looking at the foliage. After the 90 minute bus ride we arrived home. We took a taxi to our house and, We’re Back! Whew! 24 hours later than we anticipated.
It’s nice to be back and getting into our life rhythm, shopping daily without a car, café con leche at an outdoor café with friends, sunshine, but I do have to admit that the last couple days have not been that sunny and this past weekend (October 17,18) has been raining, a lot of rain.
If you’re a friend or family and planning to visit, here’s the schedule to this point. Our children are coming for Christmas, Baleigh and Ricky will be here December 23rd and the next day Landen and Lauren will be arriving, what a Christmas! Also coming to Spain and living in Málaga for three months will be Rafael and Kathy (escaping Massachusetts’s winter). Ralph and Pam may be here in January, toward the middle. Tom and Phyllis are planning on visiting in April/May, TBD, and Nick and Robin (possibly…that is a very hot time here) plan on coming so we can watch the Vuelta a España in late August/September, not sure what the Vuelta’s schedule is at this writing, another TBD.
This past weekend we went to Puerto Banus just to our south. It’s only 30 miles, but it 30 miles of Appalachian Gap driving with many buses coming to Ronda for the scenery. One reason was to shop for some comforters for our Christmas guests and to look for a car. Our friends, John and Carol Small, were nice enough to invite us to tag along with them and John has also purchased a few cars from a particular dealer in the area and knows the drill. Unfortunately all the car dealers in the area were closed. Even the Ferrari dealership!
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